Optimism

I’ve gotten used to this new life, it almost feels weird to imagine traveling so much I hardly unpacked or always being so busy I had to plan months ahead just to find a free time for brunch with friends.

Dare I say, I almost like this new life. This life where I maybe have just one thing going on each weekend, maybe. And that’s okay. I’ve dug deeper into hobbies and personal goals than ever before. I’ve saved more money and felt the weight of FOMO slide off my back. I feel more assured in who I am, what I want and where I’m going than ever before.

In the face of exploding inflation, isolation and uncertainty, I feel weirdly optimistic. So, my outfit should follow :)

Skirt: J.Crew

I got this skirt new from J.Crew a few years ago, but you can find one on Poshmark or another second hand site pretty easily. Click here to see what’s on Poshmark.

Or here is one in size 8 size 6P

Bag: Day Off Satchel by Vera Bradley

You can use the coupon code: RACHELA for 10% your Vera Bradley order (as a VB associate I earn from qualifying purchases).

You can also check out Poshmark for a great selection of second hand items here.

Shirt: Disney Similar

Glasses: Smith Optics

Jungle Florals

It’s been a hard year and I’ve definitely fallen into a slump when it comes to getting dressed everyday.

Even though I had been going into work for most of pandemic times (I didn’t have one of those work from home jobs!) having to stay isolated from everyone with my face covered made it hard to feel any sort of connection with my colleagues or even the person making my breakfast sandwich in the morning. I never realized how important those little, human moments were until I suddenly no longer had them.

How does this relate to “jungle florals?” I started a new job, working from home a few months ago, and while I love being able to be home and definitely prefer showing my whole face on zoom over just my eyes in person, it’s still been weird and hard at times to feel like a person… to feel like me.

I started this new tactic, to help myself get excited about getting dressed, getting ready and staring my day- I got out all my atheisure type clothes and mixed it in with many of my regular clothes, displayed on hangers. I organized by colors and prints to inspire some creativity, even if I’m just wearing yoga pants and a graphic tee.

Creating these outfits for a future day has not only been super fun and cathartic, it’s also inspired some more exciting athleisure - WFM outfits for myself. I even invested in a few new & used, fun yet practical bags. I have become particularly entranced with Vera Bradley’s colorful prints and lightweight, practical styles. I love the challenge of mixing them into other prints!

T shirt- Disney

Skirt- J Crew

Hat - San Diego Hat Co - San Diego Hat Co makes portable and practical sun hats, essential for SoCal sun protection ☀️

Mask: & Bag - Vera Bradley

You can use the coupon code: RACHELA for 10% your Vera Bradley order (as a VB associate I earn from qualifying purchases).

You can also check out Poshmark for a great selection of second hand items here.

Vaccinated Pin - Sol Beam Studio on Etsy
Sunglasses: Goodr makes cute, athletic sunglasses for running, hiking or your casual COVID walk, you can check them out here.

The Power of Polish

Just as I began to have hope for a fall filled with socializing the Delta variant has me thinking, “noooo, not again!”

To fill this feeling of “blah” I decided to splurge on a set of mini nail polishes from Ciate London. Silly? Maybe. But you know what I find? When I take the time to actually get dressed and maybe even paint my nails, I just feel a little better.

It’s like that saying to “dress for the job you want, not the one you have,” I’m going to paint my nails as if I have lots of outdoor barbeques to go to , and maybe, just maybe, it will happen soon. Fingers crossed.

Products featured in this video (as an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases):

Ciate London Mini Mani Month 2020: https://amzn.to/3lfaixr

From Ciate London Website: https://us.ciatelondon.com/products/mini-mani-month-2020

Ciate London Mini Mani Month 2019 (not shown in this video, but also available): https://us.ciatelondon.com/products/mini-mani-month-2019

Additional Mini Colors: Risky Business (Opal blue glitter): https://us.ciatelondon.com/products/risky-business-mini or https://amzn.to/3feWOy1

Star Struck (light blue / silver sparkle): https://us.ciatelondon.com/products/star-struck-mini

Putting on the Ritz (rosy-bright gold): https://us.ciatelondon.com/products/putting-on-the-ritz-mini

Antique Brooch ("movie star gold"): https://us.ciatelondon.com/products/antique-brooch-mini

Ode to a Robe

When the COVD-19 shutdown had just begun and we all were awash in hilarity around having not put on real pants for two weeks, a discussion begun amongst some of my friends about the purpose of a robe.

What is a robe for? One friend asked. When would you wear it? When is the moment when you aren’t wearing clothes but you need to wear something?

The number of us who were touting the benefits of the robe was surprisingly in the minority. The three of us pro-robers were almost speechless in how to defend a garment we found so essential to our everyday being. How do you explain needing a warm hug to someone who doesn't see the value in it?

Over the past six months I have had more time than I ever imagined to ponder on what my robe means to me. So, without further ado, I present my Ode to a Robe:

O robe, you are there for me each morning, as I lament the loss of my warm bed, you give me a warm hug as I stumble to through making my French press coffee (and you quietly rebel with me against the mechanization of my favorite morning beverage).

O robe, you provide me with ample pockets, large enough for my iPhone & bluetooth speaker to live in while they soothe me awake with NPR's Morning Edition.

O robe, I hate the moment I have to take you off for the day and put on real clothes. I leave you on a moment too long while I put sunless tanner on my white legs and sunscreen on my freckled arms and quietly swear as I see I've gotten some on you. O robe, I wish quarters were not in such short supply right now as washing you is not as easy as it used to be.

O robe, you grant me the priviledge me to stay in you for a few more minutes while I do my hair.

O robe, I miss you all day at work while I think, how did I manage to be one of the few non-essential people at work right now when my goal all along was to find a job I could do without changing out of my robe?

O robe, the moment I get home I rush to the bathroom to change out of my work clothes and you're there: soft, unassuming, nonjudging as I decide I just don't have the energy to possibly put on sweatpants.

O robe, you carry all of the necessary condiments as I assemble my meal to be eaten while watching the Married at First Sight.

O robe, at the end of the day I realize you definitely do need to be washed and I'll have to go a day without you until I can get to it.

O robe, the day without you is always the worst. Because, dear robe, you are a warm hug, you are a wearable blanket, you are a fanny pack, you are a long cardigan, you are the thing that I can always wear with minimal preparation and maximal enjoyment.

O robe, you are truly my most valued garment.

The Outfit We Aspire To

A friend of mine recently had the chance to meet a musician he admired at a workshop. Upon meeting him, my friend texted me this statement: “He’s such a big deal, he wears sweatpants to these workshops!”

I responded in the only way I knew how, which was to address this huge assumption about what we would all be wearing if we were no longer trying to prove anything to anybody.

I asked him, “Is this what you aspire to? A life of sweatpants?”

We then agreed that possibly the true show of “making it” would be to just be naked, all the time. Or would it? I tried to think about myself, living my dream life of sewing at home, hosting dinner parties and playing music. Would I really ever be happy wearing sweatpants all the time? Maybe cute sweatpants. More likely, party dresses. To be honest, I find myself already wearing these things on a regular basis; I think for the most part I am wearing the clothes I aspire to wear, because they fell like a true representation of the life I live and want to live.

I know I’m not an “Average Joe,” so I began to take survey of famous people and how they dressed as they reached the height in their careers:

Steve Jobs

Steve Jobs famously wore a black turtleneck, jeans and gray, New Balance sneakers every day.

Some say that this was Steve Jobs’ way of eliminating the trivial decision making that goes into picking a unique outfit each morning. Maybe this is true, but I would argue that Steve Jobs actually carefully chose this uniform to be the purest form of self expression for him and stuck with it because he felt like it presented him in the way he wanted to be seen and the way that he saw himself.

Steve Jobs wasn’t born wearing a turtle neck and jeans (as far as I’m aware). And if you look at some past photos of him, you can find him wearing a variety of clothing, from blazers & bow ties to striped sweaters and jeans. Steve Jobs, during his early years, was like any of us: occasionally donning a fancy suit because that’s what was expected of him.

But when Steve Jobs returned to Apple in 1997 the iconic photos of him in a black turtleneck, wire-frame glasses, light colored, relaxed fit jeans and gray New Balance sneakers begin to arise.

Sure, he seemingly always had wire frame glasses. And sure, you can find some vintage photos of Steve Jobs in a black turtleneck with shaggy hair and possibly no shoes. But the combination, the repetition. To me, this iconic outfit choice represents a honing in of values and choices for Steve Jobs. It represents the moment that he figured it out and decided to say, “this is who I am, this outfit is a reflection of my values and the company I represent.”

The repetition, then, is more happenstance and less about eliminating choices. When you figure out who you are and who you want to be, why would you choose to dress any differently?



Francis McDormand

Francis McDormand is famous for not following “the rules” of the red carpet. While Hollywood starlets borrow expensive jewels and designer gowns, Francis McDormand does what she likes, including wearing (custom) yellow, suede, Birkenstocks with her pink, Valentino gown, as she did at the 2019 Oscars.

For someone like Frances McDormand, no longer dressing to fulfill other’s expectations doesn’t leave her wearing the same jeans, graphic tee and tousled hair everyday. Instead she consistently defies our expectations by sometimes dressing up, sometimes dressing down but always looking impossibly cool in whatever she wears, because she wears it with with an air of edgy confidence one can only gain by truly accepting and being comfortable with the person that they are.

In Summary

While I researched Steve Jobs for this blog post, I read a lot of articles pointing to other successful men who always wear the same thing, like Barack Obama or Mark Zuckerberg. The articles stressed the idea of eliminating choice from your wardrobe to help you focus on more important decisions. I don’t disagree with this idea (as a woman who owns the same skirt in several colors), but I think the bigger picture that none of the articles got to is how to choose your ideal, daily, uniform.

Mark Zuckerberg didn’t don a blue-gray t-shirt and a neutral hoodie because he was trying to dress like some other Silicon Valley bigwig. He wore it because it felt like him. It felt comfortable, it implies youth and a hint of rebellion against the idea of having to dress up to be taken seriously. Mark Zuckerberg’s outfits are uniquely his, but also not all that unique at all. Any of us could choose to dress like Mark Zuckerberg if we chose to. But would it be the right choice for you?

To really “make it,” in our lives, our careers, our happiness, doesn’t that just mean that we fully become the person that we are trying to become? And, ideally, as this person we are also learning and growing and reacting to the world around us, so we should leave room in our wardrobe choices for spontaneity, .

My one piece of advice as you find yourself honing and curating your ideal uniform, whether it be limited to blue-gray tee shirts and hoodies or an eccentric mix of jeans, gowns and Birkenstocks, is to just make sure it makes you feel happy, comfortable, inspired and confident. Mimicking the outfits of other famous, successful people eliminates the most important part of this equation- YOU! And YOU should be the showcase of whatever outfit you don.


Elusive, Inclusive Sizing

In 2010, I got hired to be a patternmaker and technical designer for Eileen Fisher Inc. At the time, I had been working for Abercrombie & Fitch, headquartered in Columbus, Ohio. It was a pretty big change for me; the corporate cultures couldn’t have been more different! I wasn’t looking to move to New York (where Eileen Fisher Inc. is headquartered), but I couldn’t resist Eileen Fisher’s offer for three reasons: 1) To be a patternmaker (I’ll write more about this later). 2). To work for a company that was actively trying to produce things in an eco-friendly and ethical way, even if it meant less profit. 3) To work on plus size clothing.

I couldn’t tell you the delight I felt when I saw the size 16 mannequin floating around the product development department. I was scared and totally alone… I literally had only ever been to New York for the one interview that got me the job. But I knew I had made the right decision. Because in 2010, working on plus size clothing was not something one could do just anywhere. Plus size clothing was mostly limited to brands like Lane Bryant (a brand I have a lot of respect for!). Most companies just wanted to focus on the skinny person who had no fit issues.

Maybe I should explain why this meant so much to me.

In 2006, when I was a junior at the University of Michigan studying costume design, I managed to get a job working in a tailoring shop. By manage, I really do mean that. I was a good student and a competent sewer, but I had only ever worked on costumes before. What a lot of people don’t realize about costumes is they might look cool on the outside, but they can be a mess of super glue and stapled together pieces. The name of the game is that they look great on a stage, but they don’t necessarily have that finesse of a well tailored garment.

Connie, the tailor, was brave to take me on. But she did a great job of slowly bringing me on board. At first I did pant hems, hundreds of pant hems. I started thinking about things in terms of pant hems and how much I got paid per hem. Glass of wine after work with some friends? That was worth a few pant hems.

I continued to work for Connie during my remaining years in college, and then full time for about a year after college. As I learned more and was allowed to work on more challenging alterations, I became aware of the impact some of these alterations had on people. I cherished the moments when a customer would try on their newly altered clothing and smile at themselves in the mirror. A person, of any size, deserves to feel loved by their clothing, and doing alterations let me see the power of that first hand.

I’ll admit that I was a little lost in college, unsure where I was going with a degree in costume design (if you can imagine!), but in those moments, when I saw someone happily leaving with their newly fitting clothes, I knew I wanted to be a part of that magic.

Fast forward about a decade and oh, how the world of fit has changed!

Plus sized instagram influencers, the #metoo movement and a realization that there are plus sized customers who are willing to spend money on clothing that makes them feel confident & beautiful has lead to a new outcropping of existing brands offering “inclusive sizing” (e.g., Anthropologie, Stitch Fix, Modcloth, J.Crew ) and new brands focused on the plus sized market (e.g., Premme, Eloquii, Torrid).

I am excited to see so many brands including people of all shapes and sizes, and I want to take this moment to point out the accomplishment that these brands have made. I don’t know if it is widely known that offering additional sizes (especially if you are trying to do it well), takes much more than just turning on a button on the “clothing machine”.

Sizing for the mass market is an incredibly complex problem to solve. Not only is it rare that anyone is a consistent size through out their body (how many of you have a smaller sized top than bottom? Or vice versa?), what “works” on a size 4 person, might not work on a size 0 petite person, or a size 14 person. Proportion, shapes, styling (for example, how big that pocket is on each size and where it’s placed), these are not things that can be determined by a simple equation.

To go a little deeper, here is how sizing works now. Every brand has what they call their “base size.” Often it’s somewhere in the middle of their size offering, usually a size small or medium. Every style for that brand is fit on a fit model, who has the rare (!) quality of someone who is the same size throughout their body and represents the body type of the typical (or aspirational) customer for that brand.

Once the fit and styling of that garment are determined, all other sizes are derivatives of that base size.

So, let’s say you have a size medium fit model. The brand you are shopping offers sizes XS, small, medium, large, XL and XXL. You are an XXL. This means that the size you are shopping for is three derivatives away from the base size! The likely hood of your XXL garment fitting you as well as the base size fits is low…. UNLESS the brand did their homework.

To truly be inclusive, a brand not only needs to offer extended sizing, but they need to fit and evaluate these extended sizes on a fit model as well.

If you are someone who is benefiting from extended sizing and has had the joy of putting on a garment that fits and flatters your body, it’s because that brand did their research. They considered not only the size small, but all the other sizes as well. They didn’t sit back and let an equation tell them what a size XXS or XXL should look like, they fit it on a person and made adjustments so that person can feel just as confident and beautiful as every other size.

As you can imagine, doing this kind of work takes time & money on the part of the brand. It could increase the workload per style many times for the technical designers and patternmakers! So, next time you put on something that fits you well, say a little “thank you” to all the technical designers and patternmakers in the world, for nothing would make us happier than to know that you love the way it fits.